Overview

Like most sensual explorers, you may have always wanted to capture intimate moments with a lover on film (or disc), to keep these memories fresh and close to your heart. Unfortunately, the logistics of hiring a photographer, finding an appropriate location, and creating the right mood often meet head-on with issues of privacy and discretion. Enough said about the obvious.......

In the end, you essentially have two options: (1) have your lover take pics of you, solely (which partly takes away from the "us together" theme you are trying to capture); or (2) have a trusted friend, photographer, etc. take the pictures for you. Notice I only mentioned two options. Many of you might believe there is a third, and that's to take pictures of yourselves using a remote camera with a time delay or some similar control. To me, this is NOT an option. The result looks too often, well, as if you used a remote camera. Output from this is poor to say least and greatly detracts from the whole intent!

Regardless which option you pursue, go for it! Taking pictures can open up an entirely knew world of sensuality in which to journey. Be brave; and here are a few helpful tips I hope you and your lover can use toward your fulfillment!

Lighting

Lighting: THE Key! I can't say this enough, lighting is really the key. Outside, the problem is not as challenging, but since indoor sessions are more likely, it's important to know which lighting techniques will give the best results. This is particularly true if you have dark tones in your wall colors.

If you can, take advantage of morning-to-mid-day sunshine streaming into the room, but DON"T have a brightened window show in the picture. (It will simply overpower the CCDs in the camera.) Flood the room with natural light, and then accent the space with lamps of directional ceiling lights located off to the sides of the frame.

Backgrounds, contrasts, and patterns

When considering the setting, think of light colors (not white-white) for backgrounds. Too much contrast of skin-against-backgrounds will undoubtedly give the illusion of a dark, dingy room. This is amplified further if your skin is rather pale to begin with. Try off-whites or soft light colors instead. Backgrounds of 100% black, however, are so extreme, they work regardless of skin color (use that to your advantage).

If your room had a distinctive pattern, a black and white tile for instance, try to incorporate this as much as possible to add zest to the images. A wooden floor, stonework, or art, any of these can be used to give your images a different flair.

Clean the place!

Clean up your room! If you are going to take pictures in your bedroom or someplace similar that has your personal belongings out and about, clean up the place. Don't leave odds and ends out that will surely find their way into the picture and detract from the sensual theme you are trying to create. This means, put your clothes away, dust, (recycle those empty wine bottles), straighten any wall hangings, clear your nightstand of all those magazines, etc. Set the scene just as a producer would!

You

Do you have dry skin? Go ahead, use a lotion if you wish, but DON'T use one that's oil-based. Your skin will spot-reflect any lights or flash, leaving your surfaces with uneven darks and lights as a result.

Taking your pics after a fresh bath or shower might help as well. That's more of a personal taste, perhaps. One thing that's a must, though, is to wash your feet! You'd be surprised how much the dirty bottoms of your feet will find their way into your pics. Give them a quick rinse! You will be glad you did, trust me!

The problem with lines...... Don't forget that lines caused by underwear/hose elastic can linger waaay after you've taken off the garments. These lines really seem to be highlighted negatively in pics, so be sure to prepare early. (Yet another reason to walk around nude all day.)

Last thoughts

Avoid straight-on shots - use slight angles, off-center images, or ones from above instead. They are great at implying sensuality without really blandly stating it.

My personal taste? Everyone is different, no doubt (and thankfully), but I prefer black-and-white images instead of color. I don't think camera colors capture reality well, if you don't have a lot of professional equipment that is. Also, BW prompts your imagination to build upon what your eyes are seeing. This isn't always the case; but I'd be willing to bet that more famous pictures of the human

As a favor for friends a lonnnnng time ago I took my first photos of a couple locked in romantic bliss. Those were back in the days of chilly darkrooms and stale photog chemicals. Since, I've taken my share of pics; but with the advent of low-cost digital imaging, this has gotten infinitely easier. Yep. I think of the old dank darkroom days and shiver.

Anyhow, building on experience behind the lens, I still provide simple, private imaging services to help bring couples' intimate desires to reality; but I now offer these using only digital format imaging. If possible, I try to fit these sessions in during my travels (mostly in the US and UK).

Regardless if you request my help or another's, always try to find a photographer that offers the following:

- All imaging takes place either in the privacy of your home or some other appropriate location you desire;
- Complete discretion is a must;
- ALL images are captured using digital hand-held systems (i.e., NO film);
- ALL imaging Flash discs are retained by you. (I don't keep any copies of the session.);
- Included in the session is a USB Flash Card Reader (plus a device driver), to facilitate your use of the images; and
- All participants, obviously, must be 18 or older.

Rates for the service vary, depending on the location, number of discs, and level of preparation required; and I PROMISE to post some examples next time I edit this page!

Please contact me (psommer@paulsommer.org) for more details and arrange a session today!

("Paul Sommer is a member of the Sensual Photographers' Independent Network.")

If you take a few pics and are still left wanting due to the quality, don't despair! One of the luxuries of digital imagery is that it's easy to post-process the files in an infinite number of ways. There are lots of freeware/shareware programs out there, but I prefer the rocks of the enhancement world: PhotoShop and Illustrator. Both are from Adobe, but unfortunately both are also pricey!

After having used these applications since their early versions, I have a pretty good grasp on which command sequences will produce a given output image, and I'd have to say some are pretty darn nice. This includes (brag time) some work I did for the cover of the UK mag Voxel and the German Liebe.

I'd be glad to have a look at one or two of your pics and offer free suggestions for post-processing. (Note I said one or two, but not fifty!) If you do decide to send something, please take a moment and describe the types of effects you are trying to achieve and what kind of feel you wish to project in the final output. That will help determine which routes to take in the software.

To send a pic for review, simply attach it to an email (psommer@paulsommer.org). (Please don't send a file that's too big. Hint: anything larger than 1MB is too big.)

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